Year 22. "You just don't know how hard to earn bills huh?"

It hit me as a reality check.

2010, I graduate from college. My family went on a celebration trip.

"Who told you to pay for it? You just don't know how hard to earn bills huh?"

A yell from my dad dropped in the whole bus, accusing mom of buying a tour add-on. I don't dare to respond despite a huge rage inside. The malicious stare weakens me during his ten-minute rant towards mom's thoughtless action. 

Does not earning money forfeit mom's selfless contribution to the family? It hit me as a reality check. 

Financial dependency on another person is devastating. 

I will redeem the respect motherhood deserves when I grab the financial power. The tradition of women obeying your power of money has to go. Without femininity's nourishing love, all worth nothing.